THE IDEA OF LOVE

Hello everyone. I hope everyone is doing well. Today I will be talking about or expressing myself about something I very much believe in. 

Its funny. Its funny how we after a particular age all we look for is a boyfriend/girlfriend for the time being. We aren't looking for commitment. We aren't looking for something that will last. We just want someone that we can call our partner.. and so many times our partner has nothing in common with us... Our partner doesn't respect our decisions... Our partner gives us unbearable pain by saying things that tear us apart but we never let go. Why? Because we think that in today's generation where literally everyone has someone how can we say "I'm single" or "no I haven't fallen for someone in a long time " but really? Is it that bad? Is it that hard to just sit and wait for a person that you'll click with? To wait for someone who you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with? Do you really have to be with someone even though you know that this won't last. Are we so desperate to say that "I'm in a relationship." I don't understand. We are so busy to go with what's happening around us that sometimes we really forget what we want and crave. Heartbreaks never have to mean that you turn into someone who hurts people emotionally and mentally. Heartbreaks never have to mean that you become so toxic that you start to hate who you become. 

People say love is confusing but it's not true. Not for me. Love doesn't have to be complicated. Its only a matter of who you fall in love with. Life is all about making the right choices. So is love. Love shouldn't consume all the energy you have. Love should give you energy and sparks and butterflies. 

Someday, I want to wakeup everyday excited just to see that one person's face for the rest of my life. A face that I'll never grow tired of. I don't care how long it takes. I won't settle for someone who I don't care about just because the one I will care about is far away or I don't know him yet. NEVER.